Common Questions & Answers
Quick answers to help you understand our services, schedule appointments, and know what to expect when you visit us.
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General Abortion Questions
Emotional responses vary greatly among individuals. Some feel relief, others experience grief or mixed emotions, either immediately or years later. If you’re struggling emotionally after abortion, counseling and support services are available. Find out more at abortionhealing.org or contact us for readily-available, local support.
You can change your mind any time before the procedure is complete. If you or someone you know took the abortion pill and regret it, reversal may be possible. Studies show a successful reversal rate of around 66% when using the most effective progesterone regimens. The Abortion Pill Rescue Network provides free and confidential care 24/7. Call APRN at 877.558.0333 or go to AbortionPillReversal.com now. There may still be time to save your pregnancy.” (stat taken from https://lozierinstitute.org/getthefacts/abortion-drugs/ )
No, parents cannot legally force you to have an abortion, even if you’re a minor. There are legal options if you’re being coerced by parents. For more information & immediate resources: https://thejusticefoundation.org/cafa/ or call (210) 614-7157.
Yes, Kansas law requires consent from both parents for minors under 18. If parents are divorced, only the custodial parent needs to consent. There are legal exceptions in cases of abuse or through judicial bypass.
As many as 64% of American women acknowledging a history of abortion report having felt pressured to abort by others.” (stat taken from https://lozierinstitute.org/overlooked-dangers-of-mifepristone-the-fdas-reduced-rems-and-self-managed-abortion-policies-unwanted-abortions-unnecessary-abortions-unsafe-abortions/)
Healthy advice respects your autonomy and presents balanced information. Pressure often involves threats, ultimatums, time pressure, withholding information, or preventing you from talking to others or getting support.
Kansas allows abortion up to 22 weeks from the last menstrual period, though most providers have earlier limits. However, you should take the time you need to make a thoughtful decision rather than rushing based on gestational limits alone.
You have the right to take time to make this decision. While there are gestational limits for abortion, you shouldn’t be rushed into any choice. Pressure to decide immediately is often a red flag for coercion.
This is a form of coercion, and you deserve support in making a confident decision. Authentic relationships are characterized by shared decision-making. For more information & immediate resources: https://thejusticefoundation.org/cafa/ or call (210) 614-7157.
Financial threats are a form of coercion. There are resources available to help with pregnancy, parenting, housing, and education costs. Don’t let financial pressure force you into a decision you’re not comfortable with.
Providers should recommend you have a follow-up appointment with them in 1-2 weeks after the procedure to ensure it was complete and check for complications. You should always receive instructions about warning signs to watch for.
The abortion pill is a two-medication process approved up to 10 weeks that causes cramping and bleeding over several days. Surgical abortion is a procedure done in a clinic that takes 5-30 minutes depending on gestational age.
About 63% of abortions are medication abortions (the abortion pill), while 37% are surgical procedures. The type often depends on how far along the pregnancy is & patient/provider preference. Medication abortions (the abortion pill) are increasingly much more common than surgical procedures. Women often choose the medication method under the assumption that it is safer and more natural, while never being told that complications occur four times more frequently from medical than from surgical abortions. It is also important to note that if a medication abortion is incomplete, a surgical procedure will likely be required.” (stats taken from https://lozierinstitute.org/immediate-physical-complications-of-induced-abortion/)
The decision you make must be yours – voluntary and non-coerced. Contact Insight Women’s Center for pressure-free options education & support. We can help you understand your rights, explore your options, and connect you with additional resources. Our services are confidential and judgment-free. For more information & immediate resources: https://thejusticefoundation.org/cafa/ or call (210) 614-7157
While Insight Women’s Center doesn’t provide or refer for abortion, we do provide evidence-based medical education about abortion without judgment and without having any financial interest in your decision. Likewise, we can discuss the option to carry and parent and/or place for adoption. Our hope is to equip you for making a well-informed and confident pregnancy decision.
Abortion can pose possible risks to future pregnancies. Women who want to have a baby in the future should discuss these possible risks with their healthcare provider.
Pregnancy Options Education
Yes. We provide evidence-based medical education about abortion procedures, timing, & what to expect, even though we don’t perform or refer for abortions.
Our education is personalized to your specific situation, medically reviewed for accuracy, and presented by our trained client advocates and professional nurses who can address your individual questions and concerns in real-time.
Option education sessions are typically scheduled in combination with pregnancy testing and ultrasound appointments, adding an additional 15-30 minutes to your appointment. However, we’ll take as much time as you need.
Even if you’re leaning toward one option, having additional information often helps you feel more confident in your decision and better prepared for what’s ahead.
We provide ongoing support and are available to answer questions as they arise. You can also schedule follow-up appointments if you need additional information or support.
While we do value human life and hope to equip & empower women to choose life, we acknowledge this decision is entirely yours to make. No pressure. No judgment. We respect you, no matter your decision. Our goal is for you to be well-informed with factual information about each of your pregnancy options.
Healthy and Whole: Wellness Education
Yes. We help people recognize unhealthy relationship patterns and provide resources for safety planning. If you’re in an abusive situation, we can connect you with specialized domestic violence resources.
Strong relationships provide better support during difficult decisions. Learning to communicate effectively, set boundaries, and build support networks helps you navigate pregnancy choices with greater confidence and less stress.
No, this is education-focused rather than therapy. We teach practical relationship skills that anyone can use, whether you’re single, in a relationship, or working on family dynamics.
While our organization has faith foundations, our relationships curriculum is based on evidence-based communication and psychology principles that work regardless of religious beliefs.
Family dynamics can be especially challenging during pregnancy. We provide specific tools for communicating with parents, siblings, and extended family about difficult topics while maintaining healthy boundaries.
You can still benefit significantly from learning healthy relationship skills on your own. Many people find that when they change their communication patterns, it positively impacts their relationships even if the other person doesn’t participate.
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support
Yes. Recurrent pregnancy loss brings additional grief layers including fear, frustration, and questioning your body. We provide specialized support for those experiencing multiple losses.
Immediately. There’s no “right” time to seek support. Some people need help right away, others may not feel ready for weeks or months. We’re here when you’re ready, whether that’s days or years after your loss.
Pregnancy after loss brings unique anxieties and fears. We provide specialized support for subsequent pregnancies, helping you navigate the complex emotions of hope mixed with fear.
Unfortunately, pregnancy and infant loss is often misunderstood. We provide resources to help your family understand your grief and can offer support for family members who want to help but don’t know how.
All pregnancy losses matter, regardless of gestational age. Whether you lost your baby at 5 weeks or 35 weeks, your grief is valid and deserves support. We don’t minimize any loss based on timing.
Pregnancy Testing
Our medical-grade urine tests are 99% accurate when administered by our licensed professionals. These are the same quality tests used in medical offices and hospitals.
We’ll provide you with verification documentation and offer evidence-based education about all your pregnancy options: parenting, adoption, and abortion. You’ll have time to ask questions and learn about available resources.
For most accurate results, wait until the first day of your missed period. However, our sensitive tests can sometimes detect pregnancy prior to a missed period.
Abortion Pill Questions
Yes, the abortion pill isn’t recommended for women with ectopic pregnancy, bleeding disorders, chronic adrenal failure, or those taking certain medications like blood thinners. Additionally, If you have a sexually transmitted infection (STI) and are considering an abortion, it’s crucial to get tested and treated for the STI first to reduce the risk of severe, long-term health issues. A thorough medical evaluation prior to proceeding with the abortion pill is a vital step to protecting your future health & well being.
While the second medication is usually taken at home, it’s recommended to have someone available for support. You should have access to emergency medical care and transportation if complications occur.
Three to seven out of every hundred women who choose chemical abortion early in pregnancy will need follow-up care to finish the abortion. The risk of incomplete abortion and infection increases with increasing gestational age. It’s also important to note that If there is an undiagnosed ectopic pregnancy, the abortion pill regimen is not an effective treatment and can instead mask life-threatening symptoms for the woman. (stats taken from https://lozierinstitute.org/fact-sheet-risks-and-complications-of-chemical-abortion/#:~:text=Chemical%20abortion%20has%20a%20complication%20rate%20four%20times%20that%20of%20surgical%20abortion%2C%20and%20as%20many%20as%20one%20in%20five%20women%20will%20suffer%20a%20complication.%5B1%5D%2C%20%5B2%5D)
A surgical abortion is usually the next step for an incomplete or failed chemical abortion. Alternately, some women opt to continue their pregnancies when the pregnancy remains intact, with a live baby.
You can expect cramping and bleeding heavier than a normal period, often with clots. Cramping can be severe. The process typically takes several hours to days to complete. The average woman bleeds for 9-16 days and 8% will bleed longer than a month. Common side effects in almost all women include nausea, weakness, fever, chills, vomiting, headache, diarrhea, and dizziness. Stats taken from https://lozierinstitute.org/immediate-physical-complications-of-induced-abortion/
Bleeding and cramping usually indicate the process is working, but a follow-up appointment is essential to confirm the abortion is complete. This typically happens 1-2 weeks after taking the second medication.
Abortion Pill Reversal Questions
No, reversal is only possible if you’ve taken only the first pill (mifepristone). Once you take the second medication (misoprostol), the abortion process typically cannot be stopped or reversed.
The reversal process uses high-dose progesterone to try to counteract the effects of mifepristone (the first abortion pill). Progesterone is a natural hormone that helps maintain pregnancy. It must be started as soon as possible after taking mifepristone.
Time is critical. Contact the abortion pill reversal hotline (877-558-0333) immediately if you want to attempt reversal. Treatment is most effective when started within 24 hours, though it may be attempted up to 72 hours.
Studies show success rates of 64-68% when treatment begins within 24-72 hours of taking mifepristone. Success depends on factors like timing, dosage, and individual response. Earlier treatment generally improves chances.
The reversal protocol uses progesterone, which is naturally produced during pregnancy. Current research shows no increased risk of birth defects or pregnancy complications from the reversal process itself.
If the reversal is unsuccessful, the abortion will likely continue. You’ll need follow-up medical care to ensure the abortion completes safely and to address any complications.
After Abortion Support
Yes. All participants in our support groups agree to strict confidentiality. What’s shared in group stays in group.
Yes. We provide support regardless of your abortion history. Each experience can bring different emotions and healing needs, and we’re here to support you through all of it.
There’s no time limit. Whether your abortion was last week or years ago, we’re here to support you. People process experiences differently and may need support at various points in their healing journey.
That’s completely normal. Many women feel relief about their decision while still experiencing grief, sadness, or other complex emotions. Our support addresses whatever you’re feeling without expecting you to regret your choice.
We offer resources and guidance for partners and family members to help them understand post-abortion experiences. We can also provide individual support while you work through family dynamics.
Absolutely not. Our support is completely non-judgmental. We understand that women have abortions for many different reasons, and our role is to provide compassionate support for your healing process.
For The Guys
Your rights vary by situation and state law. If you’re married or the biological father, you may have certain rights regarding adoption decisions, but not regarding abortion choices. We’ll help you understand your specific situation.
Yes. Our fatherhood classes and men’s support groups provide a space where guys can ask questions, learn skills, and process feelings with other men who understand what you’re going through.
Good support means listening, providing information when asked, respecting her timeline, and being emotionally available. We’ll teach you specific communication skills and supportive behaviors.
It’s normal to have different feelings about the best choice. We can help you communicate your perspective respectfully while supporting her autonomy and your relationship.
We’ll help you understand your legal responsibilities and options, while also providing resources for preparing for fatherhood if that’s the direction you’re heading.
While the final decision is hers, you have the right to express your feelings and offer support. We can help you communicate effectively and respect boundaries while still being involved appropriately.
Parenting 101 & Adoption Support
Not at all. Every child is different, and even experienced parents benefit from refreshers, new research, and support. We welcome parents adding to their families or facing new challenges.
No. Our programs serve expectant parents, new parents, and families with children of various ages. We tailor the education to your current situation and needs.
If you’re walking this journey as a single parent, you are not alone. We’re here to come alongside you with both practical resources, relational and group support.
The Bright Course is our personalized parenting education program with over 300 lessons covering pregnancy, infant care, child development, and parenting strategies. You work one-on-one with a Client Advocate/Dad Coach at your own pace. You can earn Baby Bucks to be redeemed for baby supplies, diapers, clothing, and other essentials from our resource center.
Ultrasound Questions
Yes, although limited in nature, focusing on specific pregnancy details we use medical-grade equipment and our sonographers are trained professionals. All images are reviewed by a licensed radiologist to ensure accurate interpretation.
Absolutely. Your support person can join you during the ultrasound portion of your appointment and will be able to see the images on the screen with you.
We can typically detect pregnancy via ultrasound by 6 weeks from your last menstrual period, though optimal imaging occurs after 6-8 weeks when fetal development is more visible.
Depending on how far along you are, you may see the gestational sac, yolk sac, fetal pole, and potentially fetal cardiac activity (heartbeat). Our sonographer will explain everything you’re seeing on the screen.
Based on your results and wishes, we’ll provide evidence-based education about your pregnancy options and provide you with referral information for accessing prenatal &/or primary care along with support services, whatever you decide. Insight Women’s Center does not perform, recommend, or refer for abortions.
If we detect any concerns, we will explain that we are not seeing what is expected and will provide appropriate medical referral information to connect with proper ongoing care.
For Students
It depends on your situation and choices. We’ll help you create an academic plan that considers your due date, course requirements, and personal goals. Many students successfully graduate on schedule or with minimal delays.
Yes. Federal Title IX law protects your right to continue your education during pregnancy. You’re entitled to academic accommodations, makeup work for pregnancy-related absences, and cannot be discriminated against because of pregnancy.
Yes. We provide support and resources for partners, including information about their rights, responsibilities, and how to support their partner while managing their own education.
Having a child can actually change your dependency status and potentially qualify you for more aid. We’ll help you understand how pregnancy impacts your FAFSA and connect you with emergency financial assistance if needed.
Most residence halls don’t allow children, so if you choose to parent, you’ll need alternative housing. We can help you navigate campus housing policies and explore off-campus family-friendly options. Selah Home provides free housing during pregnancy and through your child’s first year.
We can help you plan how and when to have this conversation. Many families are more supportive than students expect, and we can provide resources to help facilitate these discussions.