Dear Soon-to-Be College Mom,

Congratulations on the exciting journey you’re embarking on – both motherhood and your college education. It’s natural to have questions and concerns about how to balance these two significant aspects of your life, but I want you to know that it’s entirely possible to continue your education while expecting. You can fully embrace motherhood and pursue a higher education. While this can seem daunting, it is the beginning of an incredible journey. Your dreams are not on hold; they are simply evolving into something even more beautiful.

Embrace Your Strength:
The fact that you’ve made it into college shows your determination and resilience. Remember, these qualities will serve you well as you navigate pregnancy and parenthood. Believe in yourself, and recognize that your strength will help you overcome any challenges that come your way.

Seek Support:
You are not alone on this journey. Reach out to your college’s resources. Many campuses offer counseling services, parenting support groups, and flexible class schedules to accommodate pregnant students. Your professors and advisors can also be understanding and accommodating if you communicate your needs. Inform your professors and academic advisors about your pregnancy as soon as you’re comfortable doing so. They can provide guidance and may be willing to accommodate your needs, such as allowing you to record lectures or providing extensions for assignments when necessary.

You can also reach out to other pregnant or parenting students on your campus or online communities. They can offer valuable insights, advice, and emotional support. You’ll find that there are many others who have walked this path successfully.

And don’t forget places like Insight Women’s Center. Our entire reason for being here is to give you real support and help. We have resources available for you that can make all the difference in your situation. In addition, we offer FREE housing during pregnancy and up to a year after babies birth at our new Selah Home.  And our home is right next to KU campus!

Plan Ahead:
Planning is key when juggling college and pregnancy. Take the time to create a schedule that works for you. Review your class schedule and plan your courses with your pregnancy in mind. If possible, choose classes that have flexible attendance policies and consider taking online courses or a reduced course load if that aligns with your academic goals. Factor in class times, study sessions, and self-care. Preparing a list of reliable childcare options for when your baby arrives can also ease your mind.

Use Technology to Your Advantage & Study Efficiently:
We live in an era where technology can facilitate your education. Many colleges offer online courses and virtual lectures, making it easier for you to balance your studies with motherhood. Explore these options if they align with your educational goals. Make the most of your study time by being efficient. Break your study sessions into smaller, focused chunks, and use active learning techniques like summarizing information in your own words, practicing with flashcards, or discussing topics with peers.

Prioritize Self-Care:
Your well-being matters, both for your sake and your baby’s. Ensure you prioritize self-care by getting enough rest, eating healthily, and staying active within your doctor’s recommendations. When you take care of yourself, you’ll be better equipped to take care of your educational and parental responsibilities.

Set Realistic Goals:
It’s essential to set realistic, achievable goals for yourself during this time. Adjust your expectations, and don’t be too hard on yourself if things don’t always go as planned. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help when you need it.

Be Flexible and Adapt:
Understand that there will be days when you may not feel your best or when unexpected situations arise. Be flexible and willing to adapt your schedule or seek extensions when needed. Your well-being and your baby’s health should always be a top priority.

Celebrate Milestones and Believe In Yourself:
As you progress through your college journey while expecting, take the time to celebrate your accomplishments – big or small. Every assignment submitted, every exam passed, and every class attended is a step closer to your degree and a brighter future for your family. Your dreams and aspirations are still entirely within your reach. The path may be challenging, but it is also incredibly rewarding. Believe in your ability to create the future you envision for yourself and your child.

Don’t Forget:
Mama, you are embarking on a remarkable journey of strength, growth, and accomplishment. Your pregnancy doesn’t mean the end of your education; it’s an exciting new chapter in your life story. With determination, support, and the belief that you can achieve your dreams, you can continue your education while embracing the joys of motherhood. You have so many options to consider and we are more than happy to help you look at all of them…

Your future is bright, and your baby is already part of your incredible journey. You can embrace it with hope and confidence!